Kailash Puri | |
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Born | 17 April 1925 Rawalpindi |
Died | 9 June 2017 Ealing |
Pen name | Hamraaz Maassi |
Occupation | Writer Agony aunt Poet Yoga teacher |
Language | English Punjabi |
Children | 3 |
Kailash Puri, popularly known as Humraaz Maasi (17 April 1925 – 9 June 2017) was an Indian writer, poet, yoga teacher, and agony aunt.
As a young mother, Puri began writing articles on cookery, family planning, and marital relations, publishing them in her weekly Punjabi magazine Subhagvati (1957-1965). She later produced, distributed and edited the Punjabi and English periodical Roopvati (1968-1974). In 1975 she became Marks & Spencer's first advisor on their range of Indian ready meals, and in the same year published her cookery book titled Highlights of Indian Cookery. During her lifetime she would produce ten books on sex, coining new sexual words difficult to translate to Punjabi.
Early life and education
Kailash Puri was born on 17 April 1925[1] to Sohan Singh Puri and his wife Prem, in Rawalpindi, then in undivided India.[2][3]
Early career
In 1943, at around the age of 16 years, Puri married Gopal Singh Puri, a scientist who gained a Government of India research fellowship in London, UK.[3] Puri joined him in 1945 and they had their first child, a son, in 1947.[3] They returned to India in 1950.[3] As a young mother, Puri began writing articles on cookery, family planning, and marital relations, publishing them in her weekly Punjabi magazine Subhagvati (1957-1965).[3][4] Puri accompanied her husband to his varioius posts in Dehra Dun, Pune and Allahabad, and then to Ibadan and Kumasi in West Africa.[3]
In 1966, by which time Puri also had two daughters, the family moved back to England and initially settled in Slough and Southall.[3] Before moving to Liverpool, where her husband was offered a post, she worked in factories and then at Harrow Land Registry, while also teaching Punjabi and cooking.[3] In Liverpool she delivered lectures on multicultural Britain, and became a founding member of the Community Relations Council.[3] There, she also produced, distributed and edited Roopvati (1968-1974), an English and Punjabi magazine that incoporated the former Subhagvati.[4][5] For Des Pardes she contributed to its columns.[2] For the monthly Punjabi magazine Kaumi Ekta she regularly published features on sexual issues.[3] During her lifetime she would produce ten books on sex, and become popularly known as Humraaz Maassi.[3] For sexual terms difficult to translate to Punjabi, she made up new ones including "madan chhatri" (cupid’s umbrella) for clitoris, and "pashm" (silk) for its surrounding hair.[2][3]
Later career
In 1975 she became Marks & Spencer's first advisor on their range of Indian ready meals.[2][6] In the same year she published her cookery book titled Highlights of Indian Cookery.[3]
For 21 years Puri and her husband managed a yoga centre.[7][8]
Awards and honours
In 1982 Puri received the Bhai Mohan Singh Vaid literary award.[3] In 1999 Ealing's mayor awarded her with a Millennium Woman Award.[3]
Death
Puri died at Ealing Hospital on 9 June 2017, 22 years after her husband.[3]
Selected publications
- Mysteries of Indian Cuisine Explained: Englishman's Guide to Indian Cookery (1975)
- The Myth of UK Integration. Whittles Publishing. 2012. ISBN 978-184995-059-6. (Co-authored with Bob Whittington)
- Pool of Life: The Autobiography of a Punjabi Agony Aunt. Liverpool University Press. 2014. ISBN 978-1-78284-067-1. (Co-authored with Eleanor Nesbitt)
See also
References
- ^ "BBC Radio 4 - Last Word". BBC. Archived from the original on 1 February 2025. Retrieved 1 February 2025.
- ^ a b c d Chandan, Amarjit (4 July 2017). "Kailash Puri obituary". The Guardian. Archived from the original on 1 February 2025. Retrieved 30 January 2025.
- ^ a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p Nesbitt, Eleanor. "In Remembrance: Kailash Puri (1925-2017)" (PDF). Archived from the original (PDF) on 1 February 2025. Retrieved 30 January 2025.
- ^ a b Bebber, Brett (2024). "2. South Asians in Britain: Migration, settlement, and conflict". In Sahoo, Ajaya K. (ed.). Routledge Handbook of South Asian Migrations. Abingdon, Oxon: Taylor & Francis. p. 64. ISBN 978-1-032-35544-3.
- ^ Roopvati (1972)
- ^ "The history of M&S prepared meals". www.marksandspencer.com. Archived from the original on 1 February 2025. Retrieved 1 February 2025.
- ^ Newcombe, Suzanne (30 June 2019). "The undocumented history of female yoga teachers in Britain". The Independent. Retrieved 1 February 2025.
- ^ Jewell, Albert (1999). Spirituality and Ageing. Jessica Kingsley Publishers. p. 171. ISBN 978-1-85302-631-7.
Bibliography
- Puri, Kailash; Nesbitt, Eleanor (2013). Pool of Life: The Autobiography of a Punjabi Agony Aunt. Liverpool University Press. ISBN 978-1-78284-067-1.
Further reading
- Puri, Kailash (2002). "1. Behind open doors". From Across the Shores: Punjabi Short Stories by Asians in Britain. Sterling Publishers Pvt. Ltd. p. 16. ISBN 978-969-494-124-0.